As the end-of-year rituals unfold, many of us find ourselves preoccupied with what’s next: the next gift to buy, the next meal to prepare, the next relatives to welcome, or the next far-away family member to call. Before we know it, the holiday season has slipped by—until it returns again next year.

If you’re cooking, it can be tough to truly enjoy the moment, even when you’re thrilled to share your culinary creations with loved ones. But pausing to notice the happy faces gathered around you makes every effort worthwhile. This is the present—not quite like last year, and not like next year. Savor the holiday season, and cherish each unique moment while it lasts.